by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Leadership, Parenting, Perspective
It’s something that comes up frequently, especially in the world of parenting.We mothers want so much to ensure that our children get great foundations so that they will thrive as adults.The problem is, that we can often misdiagnose the issues that others may be...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Leadership, Parenting, Perspective
Firstly, let’s define Bigger and Stronger and Wiser and Kinder Bigger and Stronger are the physical elements of our relationships. They tend to cover the more masculine aspects of the parenting role. Not that mothers don’t do bigger and stronger at times, it’s...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Parenting, Perspective
Something I’ve noticed is how much we can assume that we know what our child needs or wants. The problem is, we may not know them and what’s important to them at any given moment.I was watching an episode of BONES, that really highlighted this issue. The FBI...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Parenting, Perspective
Why is “find your words” an example of unhelpful encouragement? I appreciate it’s likely that your intention is to support your child with moving through a difficult situation. However, I wonder, if you were struggling with feelings, would someone saying...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Human Behaviour, Parenting
Have you considered what is the end goal with raising your kids?Do you regularly connect into why you chose to be parents? Or is it more one of those things you do when you get together?These are questions that came up during the Emotional Intimacy Certification I...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Human Behaviour, Parenting
Inspired by Brene Brown’s “I thought it was just me”This was a penny drop for me when it comes to the desire for self-esteem. Whether it be for yourself or for your child/ren. When we know we aren’t alone, life becomes so much easier.When we are no longer...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Human Behaviour, Parenting
Having our boundaries respected is one of the most common challenges in our relationship journeys. Conflict and dissatisfaction occur when our boundaries are violated, or our expectations are not met. The problem that comes up in navigating the parenting journey is...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Human Behaviour, Parenting
As the saying goes, ASSUME makes an ass out of YOU (U) and ME.What that means is that when we come from assumption, we only have a portion of the factorsto be considered and potentially end up acting like an ass. When we assume, we are looking through the filters of...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Imprint period <7, Parenting
Real Talk, Motivation, what it is, where it comes from and how to get more. One of the biggest complaints I hear in the frustration of achieving outcomes is not enough motivation either for ourselves or from the kids. The reality is, we are always motivated, we are...
by Leanne Wakeling | Communication and Relationship, Family, Mindset, Parenting
One of the biggest issues I come across as a parenting coach, mentor and educator is the battle of the extended family. Where the generations have different perspectives. Current parents knowing they want something different to the way their parents raised...
